Enjoying my life!!!

[mishka422]

You do deserve to be loved and respected Kissak. Remember the respect!

Do what you need to do to protect yourself and your kids financially and legally but do not put yourself in his drama any longer.

Forgiveness......that's the only way to peace. God requires us to forgive those who have wronged us in order to be forgiven ourselves. You will have to choose to forgive. It is a decision just like love is. Love is not a feeling, it is a decision and a commitment. Forgiveness is the same. You have to be willing to be willing to forgive first. The next step is to speak directly to God and ask for Him to forgive you for the wrongs you have done and then tell God you forgive your H for the destruction of your family and the pain he has caused.

I know you aren't going to want to hear this but....you will also need to forgive the OW.

All of this goes against human nature of course but these steps are all necessary in order to find happiness, peace and joy again.

Do these things for you Kissak. Do them for your kids.

((((Kissak)))))