OT, you being CB's biggest cheerleader on the board ( ) I'm wondering how you think I should deal with her at this concert? She will most likely approach my family, speaking to my STBX and my mother, toss me a social smile and I can either choose to engage her or not. Should I just be a statue? Should I introduce some sizzling weather talk, should I walk away declaring the need for a bathroom visit? or should I just skip intermission and stay in my seat looking like a real chickensh!t? The possibilities are endless! With luck she'll buy a ticket to a different show. hey, maybe she'll bring her bf (fat chance)and we can get to know each other. What do you say, OT?