Just chiming in with an opinion here for what it is worth. You've done well the last few days "going dark". . But, now in this first convo after a few days of quiet, you informed him that you are arguing with your family for trashing him. I think that is counter-productive for you. I think it will work better if, when you do talk it is light and casual and/or business-like. Obviously you have to talk about stuff like cash flow. But, you don't want to introduce more discussion about how much everyone disapproves of him and you aren't going to get credit for sticking up for him. Plus, I'm not sure what this says about me , but I was thinking that you have a pretty low tolerance for cussing - are you all usually pretty soft-spoken in your family?

Last edited by seekpeaceofmind; 04/24/08 02:40 AM.
me: 47
H: 48
he has 2 grown sons
M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd)
hit iceberg 6/07
S 9/26/07
before
now