I am wondering if Joie can give me 3-4 stars today's baby step. H and I talked in length and we decided to get a puppy. I assure him about commitment to the dog and care for him. He grew up with dogs and I think I can trust him about this. He says this is 'our' dog so I think he has no plan to get rid of me at this moment. So I will take this as a good thing.
I thought about pros and cons. I think having new family will change alot in the family dynamic and hope this is really positive. One thing I see the positive side is that we spend time and talk more. Another thing is to trust each other for partnership (not R or M. just like close friends)
He asked me many times if I am happy. I am very happy. but I am really scared if this will increase more stress around the family.
Kids are happy too. I am glad to see they are smiling lots. H is really into him too.
BTW puppy is 8 weeks old, cream color multipoo and Cocker mix. Soooo cute! Beauty
Me:31 H:29 D:7 S:2 M:7y Together:8y found out his A :07/07 bomb:11/01/07 s: 11/15/07 OW-1 is out of state; other female friends around first thread