HOWEVER, if you choose to NOT pursue it, you may be wondering 10, 20, 30 years down the road...... What if?
Of course, without the crystal ball you would never know, if you tried again with her, that 10, 20, 30 years down the road, miserable because you are with this woman that has cheated on you 10 times, whether you would ask, "what if I had never tried again with her? Would my life have turned out this crappy?"
Phoenixdeux,
That is a cup half empty approach.... The whole thing is he now KNOWS what she is capable of.....
In reality, "moving on" to another person provides no guarantee... He could meet someone else and she could do EXACTLY what his exW did.... Yet, he could date his exW, marry her and have a VERY happy life....
The fact is no one has a crystal ball to tell how a relationship will go... If ANYONE thought they had a crystal ball, it WAS me.... My exW was the "Christian" woman I thought would always be there... I NEVER thought she would just walk away without a fight..... She is totally spineless...... Oh well, I did not really lose anything.... There was nothing of value there in that M....
Take Care,
RMG
Last edited by RMG; 04/24/0802:16 AM.
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