Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
interesting tidbit i picked up at the charlyne cares site about counseling:
"Depending on your marriage, and God's wisdom and instruction, you may consider counseling, if you and your spouse agree. If it will cause strife, allow your Lord to be the perfect Counselor as in Isaiah 9:6."
just wanted to share with you..............
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
eh up and down.Im trying to start riding, ugh back hurts. H was saying how 2 rent applicants arent looking that good...i felt like saying ..oh that must mean you are yet again re-nigging on yet again another promise to get rid of cow. I kept my mouth shut. he had a business dinner last nite....i asked point blank if he really did. yes he did oh and he didnt do that(lie)...to which I added you mean anymore? stuttered, stumble then something about "we had our problems but wee are past that now"
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
I think maybe it is time to not ask him a million questions. Like when he said he had a business dinner and you asked if he really did---he knows you do not trust him and he most likely expects you to ask him lots of questions.
When he says he has a business dinner, just say okay and drop it. Like many MLCers, they hate that line of questioning, view you as being controlling, mommy-figure--you know what I mean.
Start a new strategy--do not question his every move. He hates that, I am sure.
Since he is home and you have allowed him to be there, let him be and when he says he is going somewhere, just say okay. Or if he says it does not look good for rent applicants, just say you are sorry to hear that and drop it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I ACTUALLY DONT ASK HIM A MILLION QUESTIONS, I THINK THATS HOW I GOT CAUGHT LAST FALL BY KEEPING MY MOUTH SHUT.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
