You Can Lead A Horse To Water...

[Lissie]

I may be making a big deal out of this, but it's wrong. He is removing this new woman's RIGHT to the truth, and her RIGHT to make decisions about her life accordingly. Then, he is also lying about the pain and time you went through.

Yes. How little he must care for her. It is obvious, still that the only person he cares for is himself.

He may choose to get a spine, or maybe not. Maybe not everyone does, but pretends to instead, by smashing their new sqaure life into the round hole of the future. Then, they wonder why things explode later and come back to the SAME issues.

Exactly, he will be back with the same issues, in no time. He has not rolled up his sleeves, and put his nose to the ground, and started the work on himself. He has not looked deep down inside, and see all that scary stuff, that is deep inside, him that creates the muck.

Change of geography, change of clothes, change of homes, change of who he is dating. None of it will work. He is not being true to her, he is not being true to himself.

This is a man that skims off the top to survive.

You on the other hand, my gosh, have come such a long way. You have done the deep down dirty work, and still are doing it. You are a work in progress, and you will never stop. You will never stop bettering yourself.

That speaks volumes of you, and who you have become thru this process.

How can you be in an R with him. It will be totally lopsided. He does not have what it takes to reach you.

And you my dear friend, should never settle. Oh, how we have talked about this. If these guys really knew how deep they cut.

How their words, are so hard and go right for the heart, with no detour.

But as they say, what doesn't kill us....................

SMile my lovey. You can go to sleep at night, with a clear mind.

You can say you tried your absolute best, at everything that came up.

Your spirit is free.

I love you.