Hi I like your post Im not sure I know exactly what you mean and im no expert our timelines are similar..my bomb in feb seperated in june 07 I think if the was is coming back..how do you know? unless they tell you seems they are always hanging around like you said hot and cold testing ect I get that too but H never actually says anything still doesnt really want to talk about where this seperation will lead? I think if was comes back..some kind of C is really needed or as we have read by other s threads the return may not last or A will continue b/c was hasnt faced their issues.. snooping i dont know..I think many might say it is ok at this point to know the truth the WAS has to really committ again and if A continues chances of reconcilliation must be slim peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow