You Can Lead A Horse To Water...

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Hope,
Well, if he is in a new R, he's probably in the exciting new stage. That phase will wear off too, you know...and then what? The reality of day to day living is not fun.

But you need to drop the rope entirely. That's what I am doing now. When H says D, just agree. Be independent. Do not talk about how he has hurt you any more.

I find it interesting that he still wants LS instead of D. Even for financial reasons.....