Thanks cagz...I would have worked hard to restore things, but you cannot make a marriage with one person's strength. It takes two and my H isn't going to come around.
I try to be "over" him as much as I possibly can, but it still hurts and lingers in my thoughts. I don't think you ever fully get over it.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
