Oy vey...

I need help. I really don't know what to do...
Here goes.

Everytime I see the kids' father, he tells me that I look nice. It is spring break so we have had more "house changing" than normal this week. Anyhow, it was his weekend so on Saturday nite I get a call from him asking me to bring some sneakers for the oldest because they had to throw the hers away (long story). This was 10:45pm. I brought them because I did not want to get up early on Sunday but now it seems to just have been a ploy to just get me to come over or to know where I was. Silly me.

Anyway, the kids sleep over at a friend's on Monday, they were at the father's house and I needed to get them clothes. He said that he would come pick them up. I packed them and walked them over to prevent us being alone as a boundary to protect myself.

I did so and he made sure to comment on how I looked. Later in the evening, about 1145pm he called. I was sleeping and he called asking if he could come over to "make love to me." I was shocked and said," you wanted it this way. Under different circumstances, you could have had it anytime, anyway. But like this, I am flattered but I can't." I proceeded to make small talk about a few different things and then I said"Good night".

SOME ONE TELL ME... WHAT THE HECK ?!!

He is probably just looking for some but in the same token, what is this all about ? Our court date is May 12. What is this all about...