Unfortunately in many cases, it is mostly up to our wayward spouses how things turn out, in the end
Someone asked me the other day what I would do if H begged to come back. I told her I never even think about that, because it won't happen. This whole thing has been up to him. The only thing I can control is me. I have learned this.....
nocode, you are stronger than you realize and have DB'ed yourself into an amazing person and father. So, shush about night and day......
