SG - yes, it will achieve my goal. I'm doing something different from what I usually do and I'm looking back at what has shaken her up before and losing my friendship has been the biggie. But I've been too nice in the past to enforce that.

Things are different now. I was served papers today, I move next week, and I'm ready to completely reclaim my life.

Kerry, you're right but I've communicated that message for quite awhile. She needs some time to dwell on what's really going on. And so do I for that matter because honestly, I love her with all my heart but I just can't see being with her again.

Down, but not out - lodo


Divorced: 10/26/08