I don't think you think everything is OK, but I think it's OK to get your hopes up that she may think flowers are beautiful and/or that it was nice of you to pick them for her.

Be the nice guy you are, don't let her beat that out of you.

Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.