Ive never posted on your thread before, just got reading...
Just because your a man doesn't mean you have to suck it up or get over things quickly. You take as much time as you need male or female. Everyone deals with infidelity differently. Speaking for myself, as my H was into porn just like yourself, but took it one step further and posted a naked pic of himself on adultfriendfinder... that's when I really lost it. Although I never cheated on my H because of that,I did think about leaving him. But I stayed because of my boys. looking at porn isn't a good thing, but I have learned that this was no reflection on me, it was his own insecurities. But when it happend, I certainly felt betrayed.
Forgiveness comes with time. For me, I still question everything, I just don't always act on my suspicious because sometimes they are wrong.
The only thing I can say is maybe she doesn't want to hurt you. I understand you wanting to know everything, so did I..
I hope you can hang on a little longer and work things out.
(((hugs)))
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
