PCJ~ Sorry I didn't get back with you...if I neglect something you have asked, just come over to my thread and slap me!!!
My DB coach has reccommended no contact in my sitch. My is rather a unique sitch. I am the WAW who is now regretting it and trying to get my H to want to work on things...it's a long drawn out saga...if you get really bored you can read about it!! I have been at this for a year now. We go up and down the roller coaster. As for now, no contact. I have found, the more I detatch, and do things for myself, the better I feel. don't get me wrong, I still am waiting for a phone call or text from him, but not constantly checking my phone like I once did.
You have to do what is best for you. Each sitch, is different in its own unique way. We are all here to help and support each other, and sometimes just to vent!! I do that a lot!!! I have made some great friends here! And the funny thing is I don't even know what they look like!!
Detatch, read and re-read the books. Stay strong, focused and motivated. Do the things in life that make you happy. The goal in all of this is, for you to be happy within yourself, and hopefully when that happens, your S will see that and want to be a part of your life again.
Take care christarn
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
