I need advise badly. I am at a point after reading James Dobsons book "Love must be tough" that I feel I need to confront my H and show him tough love.
My Sitch in a nutshell is that my H left me on March 26, 2007. Total MLC and even started an emotional affair with a stripper. After being gone for about 4 months he came crawling back and moved back in with me and we peiced for about 5 months. Then out of the blue he up and left again a week before christmas and moved out to another apartment. about 3 months later he came back to me for about a week and never moved back in but tried to work things out. He stopped working at our M after only a week and said our divorce is inevitable even though we have a lot of love for each other, he feels there are too many outside issues that are getting in the way of our R. He has been very distant lately and I havent seen him in over 2 months. We have 2 months left of our legal seperation and then he can file for a no-fualt divorce if he chooses.
I am feeling like this is a last ditch effort, but the book suggests writing a letter that is loving but showing the intolerance for the treatment I have been through.
I will show the letter to you all in my next post, but it is powerful and I need advise on if and when I should send it.
