So if H shows up at Great Wolf Lodge tonight as he said he would. What should my plan of action be? I know to have as much fun with d as possible, for her sake and mine. but do I act friendly to H, "as if" or do I act distant but polite, no R talk, that is for me as well I want to have a nice time.
My vote would be to focus mostly on your d, but be polite & mildly friendly to your H and no R talk. That's what I am trying for anyway, although it is easier said than done!!! Karen