This is something I can't understand. Afterall, we are all reminded as life goes by to SMELL THE ROSES. What kind of people will pick beautiful roses and put them in a vase, and the other person sees them, and both say nothing? Do you mime to each other? What goes on in your house? Is the TV the only thing with a voice? Tell her. "did you see the yellow roses? They're from our garden. Aren't they pretty?" And then she needs to say something. What will she say. "Yes, but I didn't want to give you the satisfaction of knowing that I saw them because then you will think we can have sex!" Doubtful. Open your mouth.