He was complaining about the phone not working, and wanted to know why....im in charge of everything dontcha know.
thanks for stopping by goingforward..he is strange in the fact that most people don't speak for awhiile after they fight.. he turns it on and off like a switch.
karen- thanks for coming over.. actually i Always yell back (or at least set him straight) but when the kids are around I just remain calm and let him rant like a looney toon.No point in letting the kids see both of us like that. We both have firey personalities, so yes I have a temper too, but im better at controlling it than him.
Hi jak... thanks.. there is no way I can get family involved.. if I ever told them anything that was going on they would never speak to him and there would be no going back. It would cause way too much trouble for me if anything.
Ultimatums don't work on him, this would just cause more tension. and really where the heck would I go. Im just going to have to bide my time. I ve to get him alone, really alone and have a good long talk with him, a honest one and let him know exactly what I am feeling, weather he wants to hear it or not.
Until then I will remain distant, but here for my kids and that's all I can do. Talking about it helps me, more than you know.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
