My husband said he needed more space....

[cw68]

That's tough. When I found out my H was having an EA, he agreed to end it right away. I didn't know this other woman, though she was our dental hygienist, but told him I was sending her an email to back off. I sent the email to him before I sent it to her and it pretty much said that I wasn't accusing her of anything untoward, but that I was respectfully requesting that she disassociated herself from my husband, that we needed to figure this thing out without any outside distractions. She responded, blah blah blah, but it made me feel better.

However, I wouldn't call her or get into anything with her. Just enough to "stake my claim" and calm me down.