I have to agree with Karen here. You need to say something. This is abuse and should not be tolerated.
Hugs to you Tal it is so hard when you have little ones. Can family help? Maybe giving the Ultimatum is the only way to make him see what he is doing to you. But you would have to back up what you say if neccesary so, it cannot be an empty statement.
(((((((((TAL))))))))))
JAK
Posted back to you on my thread.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez