He didn't come *back* those two times. Yeah, he was around but until he makes the changes that need to be made in order for you to even consider reconciling he isn't *back*. He plays you. He plays her. He tries to play the two of you against each other.
Stay dark. Do what you need to do to protect yourself financially.
You can't save him. He has to want to save himself. At this point, I don't believe he does. He is on an ego trip because he has two women who fall all over themselves at the thought that he might return.
You deserve so much better than what he gives, Kissak.
*hugs* ~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
