This is great advice WAWed, I just hope I can do it justice. This is all all hard and overwhelming. I try everyday to appear happy and content, when inside I'm just a mess. I have bad days and slip up from time to time, but I think it's getting a little easier day by day. It helps so much to hear others stories and know that I am not alone in trying to save my marriage, even if I'm the only one trying.
