Well the reason I don't ask is because often my H won't answer so I've learned not to ask! I do sometimes, and he is better about answering I guess b/c I am super careful not to ask too many ?s of him. Lwb, thanks for the tip about Lowes and Home Depot! I have a Lowe's not too far away from me, so I plan on checking with them first.
My H is definitely a bit friendlier (not a lot) but for example, he was so distant/detached when I used to sit down on the same couch as him he would immediately move. Last night the kids were sitting on the other couch, so there was no place else to sit except on the floor or next to H. He didn't move last night after I sat down and then I left after 10 or so minutes (1st to leave , so I guess he doesn't loathe me anymore or whatever that was a few months ago!
I dreamed last night my H hated me, but a lot of his anger towards me really seems to have disappeared lately. I told my C yesterday fighting with me is like fighting with water; it's pretty impossible right now (I am pretty calm, cool, collected, & friendly with H and everyone really). I've noticed that as I am friendlier & happier btw, that everyone else in the world seems to be happier & friendly to me too. It's very cool!
On today's agenda I have planned trying to clean the house some more (let it go these last 2 weeks I've been so busy) and planting sunflowers with my D8. I have a brown thumb, so I am hoping she has a green one to make up for mine! Karen
