My W and I did the MC from 11/07 to 2/08 and she cancelled the last session because things were "better". She filed for D seven days later and said "we tried MC". Be careful. MC can hurt if her heart is not in it.
Your sitch is so close to mine: 1. D Filed 2. Still in same house 3. Sleeping in separate rooms, No TLC. My W is being soooooo nice and seems sooooo close to normal yet the D filing is still out there. I wish that one of the moderators or Michelle could answer this enigma. We are not the only ones with this type of sitch with this question.
I know Eagle. It drives me crazy. 1 minute my W is fine the next minute it claws out and ready to argue. I stopped arguing in December and decided that no matter how right I think I am, that she is the one who is right.. I have took full responsibility for the failure of our M, took responsibility for things I should not have had to take responsibility for but she has not shown much accountability.
I think she's doing the MC to make our D "freindlier". My take on MC--I'm going to go to help save us. may be the wrong way for me to think but I look at it like this--if my W wants out, she's done, I'll be nice to her and cordial to her to work with her for my D's sake...but I don't really think I'll consider her a friend when/if it's over.
My W will be 44 in May. She had our D at 41. She has not had a period in 7 months. Every woman I have talked to has said my W may be going through menopause/premenopausal...I know one thing, she has certainly been on the fence about this and is determined not to withdraw the petition. It's put me in a tough position..I've had to get a L to answer the filing..it's a runaway freight train now I'm afraid.
