Puppy, you are so right..If Only I could stop this behavior..But it doesn't help when he continues contacting her.. he says he won't but she'll send 80 texts and then he'll respond..Or she'll call and call and he'll eventually call back.He has been calling me all day from work and wants to come home but I just can't go through this anymore..I want so badly to have him love me again but I know he loves her..he says he LOVED her and no longer does..But I don't buy it.I don't understand, if he loves her so much than why not make the full move? Just go and be with her..Seems as though he wants it all..Except for me..


Me: 36 H: 34
2 D's: 10+13
Married: 13 yrs(Together 15)
Found out about A-Jan 08
Finally ended April 08..I hope??
Struggling to co-exist in peace