Dar, I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis, my friend had the same one last year and she went through a very big operation having her uterus removed. It was nothing to make fun of...it changed her life.
I hope all will be well for you.
Please Dar....just BE...just BE and don't explain or try to convince the world of who Dar is....the world will know.
Take care xx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus