when it comes to financial / legal settlements stbx is all business, so I wonder if your H is being distant as to not mix financial and emotional situations, and is afraid any interaction from you might be manipulative to get your way? or perhaps he is po'd at having to go to court and thus is keeping his distance?
If I may ask, what are the reasons you are going to court?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
