Upside I so agree that i am trying to understand why we cant be normal.

Part of me wants to just settleand not go to court.

Maybe we can meet half way.

I decided the visitation schedule wasnt worth fighting, so I let H have it.

But Am I doing it for hopes H will be normal again($$$$$ settling)

Does he have to feel in control? Does H feel like I am in control?

What a Dilemna!