My W and I did the MC from 11/07 to 2/08 and she cancelled the last session because things were "better". She filed for D seven days later and said "we tried MC". Be careful. MC can hurt if her heart is not in it.
Your sitch is so close to mine: 1. D Filed 2. Still in same house 3. Sleeping in separate rooms, No TLC. My W is being soooooo nice and seems sooooo close to normal yet the D filing is still out there. I wish that one of the moderators or Michelle could answer this enigma. We are not the only ones with this type of sitch with this question.