I also agree that it's possible. It's possible to rekindle your love and marriage after an affair. Though I admit it takes a lot of work on both of your parts.
Piecing is not an easy task. It's been 2 years since my H decided to return. And like BFM I kept ML with my H even though he didn't want to be with me. For me (and him) it was something that showed him that I still loved him, despite all the hurtful things he had done.
He has told me that he felt my love and tenderness, along with the pain and sorrow through our physical relationship. As difficult as it was for me, mainly it took a lot to separate those "emotions" from the physical side of it....it was worth it.
It can be done. No one said piecing was easy...but it can be done.
RU
To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides. - David Viscott
