I think your exactly right, but I want her to be happy so much! At that time, I really thought that it would be best if I just let her go and do what she wants so she would be happy again. Luckily I was wrong! She has started opening up to me more. We kiss, we cuddle and she has even started saying I love you again!!!! I almost cried the first time she said it.... We were almost intimate a couple nights ago because it was my birthday. She was going to ML for my birthday, but we talked first. We agree that we are making steps and I told her that I didn't want to rush anything and mess that up. I could wait until she was ready, so we didn't. That was the hardest thing I have done in a long time!
She says that she just doesn't want it but that when she does that she will want it with me.... I just wish she would to see someone that she could talk to. She has some issues that I can't help her with. All I can do is give her time! Its really hard, but this forum is really helping!
