I am new to this website. My wife and I have been seperated for a year.I went through a midlife crisis when I got out of the military and had a hard time finding work. I didn't communicate well with my wife and shut her out. Finally we seperated. I realized that it was a huge mistake. I did the normal begging and pleading but nothing worked. I stopped communicating with her again after she said no. After a couple of months I found out she was seeing someone. I was devestated. I called and begged for another chance. She said not right now, but did leave the possibility open in the future.I decided that I needed to find a way to win her back and found Divorce Busting at the bookstore. Im glad I did. I have been going about things the wrong way. I signed up for telephone coaching and have started the last resor method. I really hope things work out. Anyone else have a similar situation.


Me:37 Her:34
Married: 10/16/1999
Seperated: 08/10/2007