Hi TwinDad. I think what we all need is a little more background.

How long have you known each other?
How long have you been married?
Has she expressed unhappiness before this?
Have you two had marriage problems?
Did she suffer from postpartum depression?
Have there been any major life changes (other than having kids)?
Have you asked why she wants to separate?
Do you think there could me another man in the picture? Be honest.
Have you read the book "Divorce Remedy"?

Help us to help you.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!