yeah, my H is back but he really hasnt seen the red cow for what she is....i think because he is only 1/2 way thru his journey. realizes he needs and wants to be here for his life but cant accept he fell for a needy self absorbed 25 yr old looking for a meal ticket. until he sees that R was a huge mistake, he wont be all the way home.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest