Thanks M as I couldn't find it. I may adapt it slightly but I do like the jist of it. I'll be sure to post the wording here before I send for commenting.

Strange thing with this board, I wish I'd found it a year ago, but my realtionship was not over back then. Think there could be a seperate site that diverts you to here that is more relationship wise before it gets to seperation state. Just thinking out loud and guess I have regrets that I didn't get here sooner