I read some of you situation and yeah whats the difference if you showed up at the office or told her later. Maybe you didn't handle it perfect, but we are all human no one is perfect.
Don't be so hard on yourself we all screw up its our life and not a game of perfection.
In the end what really counts is that you don't give up and continue to try and improve yourself as a person. If this is not enough for our spouses then no human on this planet will ever be good enough for them.
You're correct soulmate.
My W acted different last night after she got home. She was sort of pissy when she got in. I just acted "as if" and went about my business of preparing dinner. We watched a DVD..Walk Hard..pretty stupid movie but some funny parts.
Played with my D outside. She loves the outdoors. 2 is a cool age, they are learning and saying so many new and unexpected things.
I don't really think she's in the MC for the same reason I am. I am in to save our M. I think she is in just so we can be on friendly terms when the D is final.
I'm prepared to move on. I'm pretty calm this morning. I'm at peace right now.
