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owns her now...she ahs no where else to turn and that empowers him

In my sitch the standard of living of OW has increased BIG time by living with H. So she is happy he owns her, it is not in her best interests for him to disown her. This empowers her.

Quite what will happen now that my son has gone to live with H remains to be seen. I suspect they will all become one happy family and that will empower her even more.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15