She has told me before, that less pursuing is good.
Just like the book says.
In fact, this past weekend we talked about the previous weekend, when we were in Seattle. She said "why is it that nothing happened then? Why didn't sparks fly between us?"
I said, "What would you have done if I had made a sexual move on you?"
"Probably would have stopped you" she said.
"How about if I said I love you?"
"Oh that would make me head for the hills," she laughed.
"What if I wanted to cuddle or hug?"
"I would probably have felt a bit smothered" she said.
Also, we drank a toast to "no expectations" on our first day there.
So, I guess we know why there were no sparks flying.
As you can see, she doesn't have a clear thought process here! I had to explain all of this to her! And she is a VERY intelligent woman.
