Wow you sound so strong..this is what I need to do as well..I also admire you for not asking..I have a tendency to ask and ask and ask..it gets to be too much..
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace