It's been34 days in LRT, i have not contcted H in any way shape or form. He has sent me a voice mail of our song and driven by my house all within 5 days. I know i'm loosing my patience of being dark.

should I go about contacting him in a round about way. Meaning, I could take my daughter to his mother's house for an unscheduled visit-of course when he's not there. i'm thinking that may open the door or give him the green light to contact me more aggresively in a round about way.

or

should i just do nothing still?


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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1399469&page=1#Post1399469


Me 40 H 30
D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months
H walked out nov 1, 2009
Seperated ever since
filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10