my story adventures of a WAW!

[christarn]

Mike, thanks for stoppin by!! I thought about leaving a message on his truck...but Jodi(db coach) thought i should wait for him to communicate with me, says he has control issues. I was controlling thru the M, so he is trying to be controlling now. She said by me doing the work, he just sits back in the easy chair and relaxes and says "yep, she still wants me!!" and he really doesn't have to do anything, and can decide, when and where and at what speed this all goes. It makes sense. I'm hoping to take a break while at work, and take a walk around campus and he will "accidently" (of course) see me!!! and hopefully things will go from there!

As for yard work, I am having a border company come tomorrow(weds) and shoot me an estimate to put in some brick border/edging, so I can do some landscaping. I'm sure I'm refered to in the neighborhood as the redneck neighbor!!! Last years priorities where: the inside of the house, painting, new floors etc, and a new fence for the pooches....now this year I can focus on some outside stuff!! I'm hoping to get the border done and get a few new bushes and plants then mulch everything. I planted grass all over...hopefully it will all be taking shape soon!!

I guess we can take the work out in trade, I will come help do the yard work, in return you get to massage my back!! After the day I had at work I am ready for one!! I'm just tired of working with a bunch of backstabbers. The people, mainly a few specific, would rather tell everyone how crappy you are at your job, (which I know I am not, had a long talk with my boss, and I am in her good graces)then tell you to your face. I am the type of person, if I have done something to upset somebody, just tell me, I am an adult, I can handle it. Do not tell people a bunch of crap behind my back. It is petty!! And it always has a way of coming out in the end. Oh the drama...I told one of my friends, my home life is already an episode of Jerry Springer, I guess work can be the sequel!! After today, I was ready to clean house, call the H, and say I'm ready for your answer, are we married or talking to atty's...thank goodness I got home and had some positive feedback here, and one of my goodfriends who gets what I am trying to do, and the whole DB approach called me. She calmed me down. I am refocused!! Work is left at work! Thank goodness I have tomorrow off! Or a massive case of explosive diarrhea with projectile vomitting would have been coming on

Girls night was good, didn't run into the H. Had a great time regardless!

take care, hugs
Christa