I appreciate everyone's concern and their offers of wisdom to me in this sitch. I really do. I know I have to guard against overreacting in my stance against W's offenses.

I think the only way through this now is to try to truly forget her, once and for all. She is forever lost, and nothing I, in particular, can say or do anything to change that.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.