I am not trying to initiate any R talks. Do I respond to WW if she initiates?
H will initiate R talk with me, which basically means he lists everything I have done wrong. I listen, say "I am sorry you see it that way", etc, but I don't argue anymore. If it gets to hard to listen to, I change the subject.
She will constantly argue the points you bring up.
Don't walk away immediately if she starts a talk. See where it goes, then start the neutral remarks......
