After this weekend, with W telling me I "have her blessing" to start dating other women, I really feel I need to take another detachment step. She needs to feel me pulling away...of course, lovingly.
I have dusted off DR and will start reading it again tonight.
I will see how long I can go without initiating contact...one day at a time. We shared one email today, and I felt no desire from her to keep anything going.
Evaluate your progress, do what works, stop what doesn't?
It ain't working so good right now, so I think changing the dynamic will do something. But the question is - what?
