seems like two questions here...
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So here's the question is it possible to find love again after an emotional and physical affair and to get back in love with your spouse?

and to repeat the previous posts, Yep.

But your thread title...
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Sex enough to rekindle marriage after E&P Affair?
Well, maybe not, probably not, but it's a start.

Michelle used to have an article about why having sex was important when you are trying to work things out, how it contributes to the practice of intimacy that needs to be rebuilt. I searched for it earlier today when I first read your post but haven't been able to find it. I'll keep trying, or maybe someone else remembers where it is.