You are where you are, there is no "should." Just be in the space you're in, because that's where you are and it's okay.
Been thinking about you tons....
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!