Thanks so much all. I feel like I am so far behind on EVERYthing.. work, email replies, housework, the boards. Catching up little by little though. We're all still very sad about my grandma, but we're doing OK. We went to H's family thing on Monday and it was really good - I know Mom and I were both kinda distracted, but it was great to be around people.
I'll post more soon including replies to everyone.
Thanks again and hugs to everyone.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
You are where you are, there is no "should." Just be in the space you're in, because that's where you are and it's okay.
Been thinking about you tons....
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
thats really cool about the bday parties/remember your gma and invite your mom. and so glad to hear how supporting H is. I'm sure that's really important.
You know, maybe your gma passing might have positive affect on your mom. Maybe she will look at this as life is too short to be unhappy? And she's right that you made the right decision last year. you shouldn't feel guilty, you had to do what was right for you, and you did NOT need any negativity back then for sure.
hope you continue to get better, emotionally and physically.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I have the next 5 days off work and I am SOOO glad. Today through Sun we're going to a race, then I took the next two days off just to catch up. I'm seriously losing it, so I am looking forward to this break.
I swore I wasn't going to post until we got back next week but I couldn't help myself.
I will check in with a lot more detail and replies very soon. Hugs to everyone and hope you have a great weekend.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
