We're doing this w/o L. No kids, aren't going after each other's retirement accounts, have been civil and amicable. House is the only issue, and she's agreed to my offer - she pays me half our down payment and I stay on the mortgage & title for 1 year, at which point we sell if she hasn't refinanced. Here in CA filing is pretty easy - I did all the filing online. Of course there's still the 6 month wait.
What I hate is that I still feel, despite her quickness to say she hasn't changed her mind, that we aren't done yet. That she's going to regret this. But at this point I think that's me not letting go. And as I said above, she's got some core issues that mean this could happen over and over again. Which I don't want. So I have to give it up.
